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Is your boyfriend/girlfriend abusive?

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Quiz 2 – Is your boyfriend/girlfriend abusive?

Are you worried about your relationship with your girlfriend or boyfriend? Lots of people are in an abusive relationship and don’t realise.

This quiz can help you to understand if there is a problem. Answer the questions below, ticking YesNo or Sometimes.

1. Are you scared of them?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

2. Do you feel trapped in the relationship?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

3. Do they threaten you or make you feel nervous?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

4. Do they put you down, call you names or always criticise you?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

5. Do they hit, punch, kick, push, throw things or do other things to hurt you?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

6. Do they want to control what you wear?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

7. Do they stop you from seeing your friends?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

8. Are they jealous or possessive?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

9. Do they constantly check up on you, where you are what you are doing?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

10. Do they try to control where you go and what you do?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

11. Do they make you do things you do not want to do?

 Yes
 No
 Sometimes

 

If you’ve answered Yes, Sometimes or Don’t Know to any…
This kind of behaviour is not okay –  In a healthy relationship you should feel loved and supported.  Your boyfriend or girlfriend should respect you and your opinion, and you should feel safe.  Further information and advice on what is happening and the help available can be found in our What you should know and get help sections.
If answered No to everything…
It sounds like things are pretty safe at the moment.  In a healthy relationship you should feel loved and supported.  Your boyfriend or girlfriend should respect you and your opinion, and you should feel safe.  If you ever feel this is not the case further information and advice is available in our What you should know and get help sections.